Homecoming (part 3)

During this homecoming trip, I was interviewed for a Netflix gay documentary series as one of the "pioneers" of Singapore gay history by marching in the first gay "contingent" (of two people) in the 2010 Chingay parade. It was lots of fun doing that with a fellow gay activist and the interviewer didn't even have to ask questions as we knew exactly what he wanted and blabbered away non-stop. I also visited my Papa's new eternal resting place, which was one of the highlights of my trip.

On a less serious note, the itinerary of any of my overseas trips will always contain some nudist activities and where better to be nude than at Lazarus Island? Although the island is getting more populated with new resort hotels and water sport facilities, we were lucky to still have the secluded part of the beach to ourselves. That's where got one with nature and engaged in other naughty shenanigans, including non-conventional water sports, hehe. The posts below start from the day trip to Lazarus Island.

And we're off! Guess where we're heading?

I'm so burnt and will so peel in a few days but it's worth it! We'll cherish this place because it'll soon be developed and not as isolated anymore for nudity. More sexy pics to come. #Flex #Naturism

Bangkok memory #3 - Gnawing away at gigantic pork ribs. No complaints there as pork is my favourite (non-human) meat. Hehe.

Penang food for dinner and then yummy dessert with my best girlfriend. It's been too long!

I'm part of an exhibition due to the fact that I marched in the Chingay parade as part of a 2-strong first-ever gay "contingent". That was a fun night and there's a clip I can share too.

This is what I got myself burnt for. Hope this makes all Singaporean nudists a little jealous. #Naturism #SingaporeHoliday

D24 durian balls... another item crossed off my list. Yes, they are quite good.
PS: The balls were freshly-fried and hot hence the face.

Bangkok memory #4 - this is apparently the night market closest to the city centre. 3.5 out of 5 stars.

It was a great catch-up yesterday. Other than your body, you've not changed a single bit since JC days! Still as animated and I love it. See you again when I'm next back!

PSA #56 - Please be careful when you're having fun with people with a biceps fetish. Expect bites. #Ouch

The gods have granted me eye candy this hawker centre dining day. #StraightAndHot #Lucky

Rojak = another dish that's now been removed from my to-eat list. #FatDieMe

Bangkok memory #5 - Apparently this is how I shop. Might as well, given the stifling heat there that gave me rashes. #NakedIsGood

What's with the sprawling picnic-in-the-obscene-heat precinct aka Paya Lebar? These people are NUTS.

Today's the day I sink my teeth into the Nasi Lemak Burger! Verdict: 6 out of 10 (the sambal can be much better).

Mummy cooking... This is now very tiring for her but she does it for me. #Mummy'sLove

In lieu of the 3 reunion dinners I've missed partly due to COVID, this is as good as it gets. #Yumz #HomeCookedDinner2

Laksa and economy bee hoon/noodles, so quintessentially Singaporean and oh so yummy. Now, what to eat next... 🤔

The ultimate 44-year challenge. I welcome you to beat that! #Adorable
PS: Looks like my fashion sense (singlet and short shorts) haven't changed a single bit! 😎

My first time visiting Papa's new eternal "home" (columbarium) and paying my respect with mummy and sis. It sure beats his previous "home" (cemetery).

This may be bizarre to some but we had a great picnic with Papa. A reunion dinner of sorts. #Family

If you're after sexy pictures, there will be more in my next post. The entire 5-part series can be found here: 1 2 3 4 5.

Homecoming (part 2)

Hello again. Let me continue with the second part of the "Homecoming" series. There are three things high up in my to-do list for my homecoming trips and they are the three F's. Family, food and friends. That's why you'll see many pictures of food. As for friends, I not only caught up with those I haven't met in a while, I also had a short holiday in Bangkok with a girlfriend. 

She was and still is undergoing divorce proceedings. Well, taking her mind off the nastiness of a broken long-term relationship and pesky legal matters certainly presented as a good excuse to visit the place I miss so much. That being said, Bangkok today is not the Bangkok I remember pre-COVID (it's less bustling) but it's close enough. The Facebook posts below continue from where we left things in Bangkok.

 

First local fare for breakfast and then atas orange coffee. Perhaps this is what they call fusion? #RelaxingDay #BangkokHoliday

Looks like someone is not too fond of what I offer. Oh well, to each his own. Haha. #Pits #Flex #Bangkok

All used up after a visit to Chakran *wink wink*. Tonight I will sleep well for sure. Goodnight Bangkok!

We are here, the place Bangkok-bound pilgrims flock to! Here's to a great day of shopping! #Flex #Holiday

I know I'm way behind the times but this wearable adjustable fan is a godsend! #MustHave #ShoppingHoliday

I think I've found my spirit animal. Will I too be this shredded after years of waving (or in my case flexing) my arm for prosperity?

The ultimate convenience for lazy people. Why just clean when you can play and clean at the same time? 🤣 #BestInventionEver #Bangkok

Another night and another night market to explore. Man, it sure is tough being a tourist! #EnjoyingMyHoliday #Bangkok

A poser through and through. The good kind, that is. #BangkokHoliday

Wanted a challenge so ordered an extra spicy plate of fried rice in the land of spiciness. Not impressed. #ChilliLover #Bangkok

'Tis where we all reflect and contemplate life issues, or get some consolation in this case. #BangkokToilet

It's not all glitz and glamour. #AirportBound #EndOfHolidays

It's been such a long time. Thanks for a great catch-up. I'm so happy that you're now almost ready for the journey that's ahead of you!

Great food, and just like the good old times sans a few faces. Take care guys and till next time! #ExColleagues
PS: I've just realised Gabriel is not on my friends list for this account.

Bangkok memory #1 - I don't have a sweet tooth but this coconut ice-cream and grilled cheesy durian were two desserts I remember well.

A sumptuous meal cooked with much love and that's love only a mother can provide. #HomeCookedDinner1

Looks like I've been struck off the electoral roll after not voting for so many years. Oh well, I'm much better off without this burden, especially for this particular election.

Bangkok memory #2 - I wonder if Ronald has mastered Thai.

Even though I cook a lot of mee pok when I'm home in Melbourne, I still can't get enough of that chewy starchy goodness! #BahChorMee

There are more of the three F's coming up in my next post. The entire 5-part series can be found here: 1 2 3 4 5.

Homecoming (part 1)

I recently took a trip back home which I haven't done since the COVID outbreak. I remember when I last left Singapore, there was a shortage of masks and thermometers causing long queues at pharmacies all over the country. That was a time of great fear and uncertainty when COVID first made its way around the globe in January 2020. Then we had the longest lock down in Melbourne and travel became too difficult even after that. Hence, trips back to Singapore fell down my priority list.

However, I was clearly aware that Mummy is growing older and that I need to visit her as much as I can. With that in mind, I finally made this 3-week trip. In the next few posts, I'll be providing a summary of the entire trip through Facebook posts arranged in chronological order, which included Bangkok and Johor Bahru visits. Enjoy!

 

Singapore, I'll see you in 9.5 hours! Goodnight all! #TimeFor40Winks

First order of the day. Mummy force-feeding me durian at 5am (not that I'm complaining). Now a short beauty sleep before breakfast. #KingOfFruits

After a hearty breakfast, we're now on the road to shopping and more eating with Mummy dearest. ❤️❤️❤️

Lunching with the women in my life. This is what I came home for.

Coffee with a bit of #Flex with sis.

Lunch is served. Charcoal BBQ pork wanton noodle with added chicken feet. A little bit pricey for hawker centre food but it's worth it.

Should I or shouldn't I? Why must it be so difficult?

OK, I opted for Indian rojak and popiah. Maybe marginally worse than Maccas calorie-wise but I know it's gonna be so much better in taste.

Roti prata a.k.a. breakfast of champions. I told my mum at this consumption rate, I'd be a real fatty if I didn't exercise.

Lunch is served. One local delicacy now crossed off my list. #KwayChap

Seems like a simple photo with Mummy dearest? No, this photo took many takes and coffee spills to perfect! But it's worth it!

I sprained my back 2 days ago gymming (that was a lousy gym). The pain was bad but it looks like I've recovered well enough for a topless jog around the neighbourhood. All sweaty now! #Flex #Exhibitionist

I miss local fare deeply as I no longer live in SG but even if I were still here, I'll always pick this over pretentious ATAS food that the locals love. I think I'll always remain a kampung boy at heart. #YongTauFoo

If this isn't confused food identity, I don't know what is. #NotProperFusion

Sweet victory, a little one but yummy nonetheless. #CocoaNutPie #McDonalds

You think Singapore-style char kway teow is easy to find outside of Singapore? Well, think again. Hence, it's one of the must-haves whenever I am back. #NoHum

And we're off! I'm so going to eat and shop till I drop! #Flex #Holiday
PS: You'd think this crazy person has a biceps fetish... 🤔

Does this look like someone who has just been kneaded to death? #ThaiMassage #TwoHours #Flex

If they tell you size doesn't matter, they are lying. #ItIsEverything #GiganticSpicyPorkRibs #NightMarket

This is home for 3 nights. Waking up now for yummy local breakkie. PS: The gym sucks so no weight training for me here. #Hungry

 

The trip to Bangkok continues in my next post. The entire 5-part series can be found here: 1 2 3 4 5.

Musical journey (159)

 

In my previous post, I shared the teaser of my first song written from the "daddy" perspective, and I'm thrilled to post full song as this month's musical offering. I've always wanted to write a song heavily focussing on sex and ever since I completed this one, my gay-themed songs have become increasingly sexual.

 

This song not only explores the daddy/son dynamic that I love so much, it also delves in recreational drugs, which is commonplace in gay sex. That being said, it remains a rather taboo topic and hence art (music for me) is one of the best ways to play with the concept from various angles. For this composition, I've left it plainly sexual and fun.

 

One day, I'll have someone film a proper MTV for my songs and when that happens, I'll make that as exhibitionistic as possible but for now, the teaser and this lyric video will do.

[Joyride]

Door's unlocked, just come on inside
Boy I swear, your daddy's not gonna bite
Hands behind your head, oh my
Wanna taste that sweat, sugar and spice

Now close your eyes
And let me, take it off, let it out, don't be shy
Boy you're turned on by
Your daddy knows that he is doing it right

Wrap your legs 'round me tight
Let your lust be your guide
Up and down, in and out, side by side
Jump on daddy and glide

Now that you, know what my tongue likes
Give it to me, I will take my time
'Cos tonight
Your arse is all mine

Drink it up, as I load up my pipe
Light it up, and join me on this joyride
Huff in, puff out, slow and nice
Daddy's bad, but aren't I your desire

Look in my eyes
And let me, fill you up, with the time of your life
Take it, open wide
Let daddy know how much he's doing it right

Take both my hands, let's fly
Let the clouds be our guide
Up and down, in and out, side by side
I'll get you so fucking high

Through the night
You and I

 

Hello daddy

!  H  a  p  p y    4  5  t h     b  i  r  t  h  d  a  y     t  o     m  e  !

As people grow older, they always say things like "50 is the new 40". I'm not at all concerned with my age, but I can't help but to realise I'm right between 40 and 50. I've talked about my daddy issues many times on this blog but since my 40's, I've come to acknowledge that I'm at the age where I can be both daddy and son. Although "daddy" and "son" are a mindset i.e. one can be a young daddy or an old son, I've been exploring being more the daddy in my music of late.

I'll be posting the first song I wrote from the "daddy" perspective later this month but first a teaser. I showed this clip to a friend and she said I'd make good porn. I told her that's because I know exactly what people want. Perhaps this is a sign that I'll do very well on OnlyFans? Incidentally, setting up an OnlyFans page is one of the things on my bucket list and maybe I'll seriously consider that once I retire. In the meantime, I can continue sharpening my "how to be a good daddy" skills, starting with this post.

So here's the teaser of my new song "Joyride". How do I look getting into my birthday suit?